just another thought..not a hijack
If you do get caught solo due to misplaced buddy and have to search and/or exit solo, would you close your isolator valve to protect the gas supply in case the need for "emergency self rescue" were to arise? I split my time between backmount and sidemount. So I always have two pressure gauges so that I have a constant "kit" to reference on a dive.
If I were backmount and had to exit without a stage, solo. I would shut down my isolator and breath each tank equally knowing that both regs were working throughout the exit.
In answer to the original question, I agree that it should be part of the planning that you make prior to the dive. For me, I allow 1/2 to 2/3's of my emergency third to be used to look around depending on conditions and my stress level. This would allow me the rest of my second third to exit plus a little cushion to account for additional delays, problems, stress. I never want to leave a buddy, but I don't want to drown because I made an error in my gas management.
If in the senario that a lost diver is eventually found and then one of the team runs low on gas...most likely at least one diver dies in a two man team without stages or safety bottles. Depressing, but sobering.
Safe Diving,
Lee