Originally Posted by
TONY CHANEY
I really do not fully understand where you get your thoughts from.
1) No one said that you were letting her off the hook. You do appear to have a very relaxed attitude about the situation.
2) Not really even sure what you are trying to convey with "tough people, waste of energy, hurts you etc."
3)No one is wanting blood but just to warn others that she cannot be trusted.
4) Who said anything about revenge?
From my take on the situation...My dive buddies are trustworthy first and foremost. I trust them with my life thus trying my best to return from every dive to my wife and daughters. I can truly say that after 20 years in the military, 8 years working in a hospital, all the countries I have been to, every level of diving I have been at, I have never seen the trust displayed by cave divers! Some of the finest people I have ever met. I have seen thousands upon thousands of dollars in dive gear left unattended and no one will touch it. All of us from NC simply are blown away with what we see in cave country i.e. Wayne's dive shop Amigos. I truly feel that if I can't trust someone with my light then I damn sure will not trust them with my life nor my friends' life. For me, once I lose the trust and respect for someone they really will not get much of a chance to burn me again. (First time your fault second time my fault). So with that said, if you want to dive with her I understand your position and have no hard feelings. I really don't care either way. But to allow someone who has done all the things that she has done and allow her back into the fold just does not make much sense to me.